陈小姐（陈锦穗 P668211）与Bob (Robert Collins  CM579730)于2009年12月8日在亚媒网上相识, 经过两个月的书信交流后, 于2月12日，Bob带着渴望见到陈小姐的心情来相亲, 两人相见恨晚，一见钟情，并在中国春节期间在陈小姐的家中过了一个团圆年，于2010年2月21日，下午3点半， 在广州婚姻登记处，办理了结婚手续，拿到了结婚证书。 瞧， 两个人多幸福啊！
在两人交往的过程中，由于男士与女士都是以结婚为目的来到这个网站的，所以他们在通信交往过程中，时刻围绕结婚和渴望幸福婚姻这个主题，时而浪漫，时而幽默， 在不断深入了解彼此的过程中，被对方深深的吸引，最终双双坠入爱河，渴望与自己钟爱的人过上幸福美满的生活，白头偕老，共享美好而多彩的人生。
在庆祝中国新年期间， 最为经典的是，从来没有用过筷子的Bob第一次成功的将中国的传统美食喂到陈小姐的口中，这给陈小姐的家带来了欢乐的笑声，更给陈小姐的生活带来的幸福。
我们机构的全体同仁忠心祝愿陈锦穗小姐与Robert Collins先生终生幸福，白头偕老。

来信：2010-1-14

Hello Wendy          

你好wendy                                  

     It a nice day here to colder than your days but it warming up a lot .I hope my huge will make you fell warm inside and all over .I have not check around to see what I might want to go see .Dear your department of marriage calls it single certificate here we call divorce paper when I send them to be translated they will be single certificate .

  我这里天气很好,开始升温了, 不过还是比你那边的要冷很多, 我希望我的拥抱能会让你感觉到温暖. 我没有去周围看看我想看的东西. 亲爱的, 你那边的婚姻登记处所说的单身证明就我们里所叫的离婚纸. 当我拿到翻译的时候,他们说就是单身证明.

In U.S. we have no such thing as single certificate if we were married & divorced we have our divorce papers to prove we are single .It will cost all most as much as the flight to change so im thinking if we are the lover we think we are when we meet .I will come back to you in a few months after and we will get married .But im still bring my single certificate .As for the time I should get there will be XXXX and leave on theXXXX . I do not have my passport back yet from the visa service as soon as I have it back I will send you all the information you meed .here is my full name Robert E Collins my phone  number is XXX you can text me at that number if you want .Yes when I see older couple I wounder why I have not found that love & what it would be like .I have neighbors how have been married 60 some years and think whats is that like .Will my Wendy and I make it that long.The kiss to your sleeping lover made it to me I have been dreaming of you my sweet heart well i was dreaming of you before but not as much ..

在美国这里, 我们没有单身证明的, 如果我们结婚了或是离婚了, 我们有离婚证去证明我们就是单身的. 换机票的费用跟原来买机票的费用都差不多了. 所以我想是要我们真的是相爱的, 我想我们能什么见面都可以的. 在今次见面这后.我会在几个月后再跟你见面的.但是我仍然是拿着我的单身证明的. 至于那个时间, 我会在XXXX到机场, 然后在XX号那时离开中国. 我还没有拿到我的护照, 还在签证服务中心里办理中. 只要我拿到了,我就会发你所需要的信息了.我的全名是. 我的电话是XXX. 要是你想的话你可以记下我的电话的. 是的, 当我看到些老人的时候,我想知道为什么就我不能找到我的那种爱,还有要是我到了那个年龄会是什么样子的. 我有一些邻居已经结婚有60多年了, 想那感觉到底是怎样的. 我的wendy 跟我也会持续到那么久吗? 给个吻给我的睡美人., 我亲爱的, 我一直都有梦到你,唔, 我之前都有梦到你不过就是不是很经常.

Hugs & Kisses  Bob

回信：2010-1-14

Hello Bob,

亲爱的，你那里现在有太阳吗？今天广州市的阳光仍然这么灿烂，Bob,就像天气会有阴天、雨天、晴天一样，我想人生也会经历不同的遭遇，对吗？是的，以前我也会想，为什么我就不能和我的前夫白头到老呢？当我认识你之后，Bob,我去回望我以前所走过的路，我想也许是我们当时都太年轻，你知道人在年轻的时候会被很多的东西所迷惑，就像你口渴的时候今天可能想喝可口可乐，明天你想试一下咖啡，后天你还想喝别的，但是事实上只有一样是你永远都需要的，那就是水，我以前是没有这种体验的，但是我现在明白了，无论你从事什么样的工作，无论你在外面的工作是成功还是失败，当夜晚来临，你最渴望的就是一个家，一个无论你在任何时候回来都会向你张开的温暖的怀抱，亲爱的Bob,到了我们这个年纪，我相信你和我一样对于自己想寻找什么都非常清楚，是的，Bob,我只想要一个温暖的家和一个真正关心我、爱护我的男人！我相信你就是那个可以陪伴我终生的男人，你呢？

Dear, can you see the sun there? It is sunshine today in Guangzhou. Bob, I think our life will experience different encounters, right? Jus like the weather will have the cloudy day, rainy day, and sunshine day. Yes, I would think before, why I just can not live with my ex-husband forever. when I’ve known you,Bob, I looked back to my road I walked before. I think maybe we were too young at that time. you know we will be confused by many different things when we were at the young age, just like when you are thristy very much , maybe you want to drink coca-cola today, but  tomorrow you want to try a cup of coffee, then you want to drink others the day after tomorrw. But the fact is that there is only one thing you need forever. That is water. I didn’t have the experience before, but now I understand. No matter what do you do , and no matter what your work is successs or failure, when the dark hour is approaching, what you yearn for most is a home, a warm hug open to you  whenever you come back. Dear Bob, when at our this age, I believe you and I know clearly what’s your need. Yes, Bob, I just want to have a warm home and a man really care me and love me. I believe you are my man who can company with me forever. what about you?

亲爱的，谢谢你会我们的将来所做的努力，Bob,如果你坚持没有办法更改机票，那我也尊重你的意见，对了，亲爱的，我昨天晚上和茜去逛街，特意给你买了一些特色的中国礼物，你想知道那是什么吗？哈哈，那骑上你的摩托车今晚就飞到Wendy的身边吧，我猜你今晚会做这样的梦？哈哈，亲亲我的宝贝Bob.

Dear,thank you for our feture efforts. Bob, if you insist to have no chance to change your flight, I will respect you. oh, yes, dear, I went shopping with Qian last night and I bought some special China presents to you. do you want to know what is it? haha… so you can ride on your motor and fly to Wendy’s side tonight. I guess you will have this kind of dream? Haha.. kiss my Baby Bob.

Hugs & Kisses  Wendy

来信:2010-1-16

Hello Wendy       

你好Wendy                                          

 Yes the sun is shining very bright and warn today weather man say Saturday will be nice to rain on Sunday .Yes threw time and life experiences we get wiser .Yes there has been time in the past I wanted different taste but that was a long time ago. Now I know i do not need  but the taste of one .All I want now is a warm house and a good loving woman to cone home to.We will find out soon .Still trying to get single certificate there are 5 Chinese  consulates and I can not find carrier  services  to runs paper work for me to consulate in New York City that where i have to get mine from .No I will wait to see what the presents are make them a surprise  please do not tell me . Ill guess to my self .Dear it would be wonderful if I could just do that like right now . but instead I will have to close my eyes and have sweet dreams of you (: I have not went out shopping for you yet but i will im just not much on going looking for some things specially when im not sure what to get I will take an afternoon soon and put just you on my mind and wonder around the mall till I see what I think you might like .

 是的, 阳光很灿烂很明亮. 很温暖, 说星期六的天气会很好, 星期天就会下雨, 是的,过去的时间和生活经历让我们变得更加睿智. 是的, 过去的时间里我想有不同的品味, 不过那是很久以前的事了. 现在我知道我不再需要了,只是品味一个, 现在我想要的是一间很温暖的房子, 一个很好, 漂亮 的女人来我身边.  我们很快就能实现的了, 仍然想拿到我的单身证肯, 那里有五个中国领事. 而我不能找到一个能帮我拿我的证明到纽约, 要我自己拿去. 不, 我会等着去看是什么礼物, 让我等着这个惊喜吧, 请不要告诉我, 我会自己猜的.  亲爱的, 要是我现在就能拆你的礼物就好了. 不过我宁愿闭上我的眼睛在梦中跟你约会, 我还没有到外边给你买礼物呢, 但是我会去买的,只不过是我有时不会找特意找一些东西的, 尤其是我不能确定我要给你买什么, 我会花一个下午的时间去买的呢. 你总是在我的脑海里, 让我走完一个商场直到看到我认为你喜欢的东西.

 Hugs & Kisses   Bob

回信：2010-1-18

Hello Bob,

亲爱的，你的周末过得怎么样？我但愿你有一个轻松愉快的周末，至于我呢？正如我之前所告诉你的一样，我的周末是最忙碌的，这个周末就更加是，在很长时间的阴冷天气之后，广州的天气突然回暖，再加上很快就要过春节了，所以看楼的人特别多，星期六和星期天回到家里都已经将近晚上10点了，真的很累，亲爱的，当我回到那个只有我一个人居住的公寓的时候，我真的特别想你！想靠在你的怀里好好地睡一觉直到天亮，也许你会给我一些按摩？哈哈，亲爱的，每每想起你的时候我的心里就温暖了许多，也轻松了许多，亲爱的，谢谢你给我的爱！相信我，我也会给你我所有的爱，你会为你的妻子而骄傲的。

My dear, how is your weekend? I wish you have a relaxed and happy weekend. As for me, as I told you before, my weekend will be very busy, and much busier than before. After a long time of the cloudy and cold weather, it is going to be warmer in GZ. Moreover, the spring festival is dawn near. So there are too many people to look for house. I didn’t back home until approaching 10pm on Sat. and on Sun. I am really tired. Dear, I miss you very much when I back to my living apartman which is only me. I want to snuggle and sleep in your arms till daybreak. Maybe you can massage for me? hehehe… dear, when I think of you, my heart warmer and more relax. Dear, thank you for your love. Trust me, I also will give you all of my love and you will be proud of me to be your wife. 

亲爱的，谢谢你要为我买礼物，对了，你这段时间的工作还是像以前一样吗？是忙还是在你可以接受的范围之内呢？我的爱人，如果你的工作很忙的话，你就不用特意去给我挑选礼物了，尽管我也很想有你的礼物，但是我更加希望你有充分的休息。对了，你那里距离纽约有多远呢？但愿办理单身证明的手续不会太麻烦，亲爱的，我会再问一下Qian,看她的丈夫能不能给我们一点指引，我相信如果你了解相关的程序和手续的话，你办理起来就会节省很多的时间，对吗？亲爱的，我希望你有充分的休息，这样当你到达中国之后，我就可以带着你去参观周围的自然景观，对了，亲爱的，你还没有告诉我你最想去哪些地方参观，我虽然对周边地区的旅游景点都有一定了解，但是我需要我的爱人和我一起来决定这个事情，因为我们有共同的未来，对吗？想念你！渴望你的拥抱！

Dear, thank you for your present. Oh, yes, Is your work  as usal in these days? Are you busy or is it acceptable within your power? My love, if your work is too busy, despite I want to own a present from you, you don’t need to pick up present for me specially. I perfect you to rest enough. Oh,well, how far is it from New York? I wish the single certificate paper work won’t be too trouble. Dear, I will ask Qian once again, and look wheather her husband will give us  guidelines or not. I believe if you know the relevant order and process, so you will save your most of time when you dealing with it, right? dear, I hope you have rest sufficiently so that I can show you around and go to sightseeing when you arrive to China. oh, yes, my darling, you  have not told me which place you would love to visit mostly. Thouth I know the surrounding scenic spots , I need my love and I make a decision together, for we have the same future,right? I think of you and long for your hugs.

Many hugs and kisses Wendy

追信:2010-1-19

去信：2010-1-19

Hello Bob,

今天我休息，一直睡到10点才起床，阳光透过窗户把我暖暖地叫醒了，真舒服，亲爱的，你现在在做什么呢？你是正开着车在外面还是在家里呢？你那边的天气怎么样？我真希望它每一天都是晴朗的，这样你开起车来就轻松多了。

 I off work today. so I didn’t get up until 10am. It was the sunshine that go though the window and wake me up warmly. It is so cosy. Dear, what are you doing now? Are you driving outside or staying at home? How is the weather like there? I really hope everyday is sunny day, so it is relax when you are driving. 

Bob,今天起床后我回家去看望我的家人了，而且给他们做了我最拿手的啤酒鸭，对了，我家人都觉得我做的饭挺好吃的，现在让我分享一下啤酒鸭是怎么样做的吧：把鸭子买回来洗干净，热锅爆炒5分钟，等到鸭子变色后放入喜爱的各种调料，然后倒入适量的啤酒，用大火烧开然后用小火焖半小时，这样啤酒鸭就做成了，至于它的味道，我想只有你亲自试过才知道，听完我的介绍，你有兴趣自己尝试一下又或者希望试试我做的啤酒鸭吗？但愿在不久的将来我有机会亲自为你做。

Bob, I visited  my family after getting up and prepared my skillful bear duck for them. Oh,yes, my fmaily thought I cooked well. Now let me share how to do the bear duck: wash cleanly the duck then quick-fry for 5 mins,wait the color of the duck turning then put into some all kinds of flavouring, then put into bear appropriately. After that, boil it with big fire and braise it for half an hour with a slow fire. So the bear duck is done. As for its flavouring. I think only to try it, you can know . after my introducing, are you interested in having a try or do you hope me to do the bear duck for you? I wish I can have the chance to do it for you in person in the near feture.

想念你，希望你一切都好！

Miss you and hope everything about you is OK!

Many hugs and kisses Wendy

来信:2010-1-20

Hi Wendy          

你好wendy,                                     

Hope you are well im ok the beginning of week sucked had to do work on truck just little stuff I can do took me a few hours Monday evening .This weekend I did some inside work im redoing the bath room right now ..It rained all day Sunday I deep fried a turkey and made French frys for dinner you inject the turkey with flavoring and pat it with spice then drop it in deep grease at 130 Fahrenheit  let fry for 3 1/2 min a pound really good when done .Yes your duck sounds good can i try .Glad today was nice on your day off the next 5 days look like you might get some rain we might get snow and freezing rain Thursday & Friday .Yes dear if I was there I would massage you the best i know how maybe when im done massage you you do me (:Work is so so right now We have some not enough but it taking long time to get done .New York is about  250 miles away.

希望你过得好, 我很好, 在一个星期的开始我好像是被吸住了, 我要在卡车上工作, 只是还有一些事要在星期一的晚上才能处理完. 上个周末我在室内里工作. 我马上要重新装饰我的浴室, 星期天整天都下雨, 我的晚餐做了炸火鸡, 还有法国的煎炸, 放调料味还有香料到火鸡里, 然后把它扔进130华氏度的油里, 炸几分钟, 然后做成了.是的,你的啤酒鸭听起来好像很不错的样子, 我可以试一下吗? 很开心今天你休息, 在未来的5天里, 你那么好像有时会下雨. 我们这里星期四到星期五有可能会下雪或是有霜冻. 是的, 亲爱的, 要是我在那里我就可能帮你按摩了,我知道当我在给你按摩的时候, 你也可以帮我按的, 工作刚刚好, 我们不是有很多工作要做, 只不过是要花很长的一段时间去完成. 这里离纽约大约有250公里吧

I can send in just have to wait to get paper back from Pa.State dept then I will send in to Chinese Consulate Generals office in NEW York Thursday it should be back in time. I add a couple of days on Will arrive on XXX  And leave on XXXX .I will have a few place picked out soon I was looking the other day wrote a couple of place down cant find were I wrote them . Really can hardly wait

我刚送我的证明到当地的相关部门, 还要等送回来. 我送纽约的中国领事馆那里, 星期四就会可能拿回了. 我加多几天的时间, 我会在XXX到,在XXX离开. 我会很快选几个地方, 我之 前有记下几个地方的, 我不知放在哪 里了, 真的, 几乎不能等到那天的到来

Hugs & Kisses Bob

来信:2010-1-22

Hello Wendy                                               

你好wendy

  Yes I messed up first trip had to redo could not take much more work off then .I did want to spend more time so i was able to get a couple more day .I sent my paper work off to get single certificate should have back in a week or two .Awe a bath together should be fun and relaxing surround the tub with candle and give each other a sponge bath how does that sound too you(:Could I please have one of those massage .

 是的, 我的第一个旅行搞得一团糟, 我必须重做不能接受更多的工作了. 我也很想去跟你度过更长的时间, 所以我尽我可能地加多几天的时间.我把我的文本工作去拿我的单身证明, 会在一个或两个星期的时间就可以搞定. 在一起洗澡肯定会很有趣的, 很放松的. 在浴缸边里点满蜡烛, 互相给大家来个泡沫沐, 你觉得怎么样? 我能有个请求我能享受那个按摩吗?

Dear hopefully my trip will go as planed and the flights are running on time i flew to china once before and the flight ran on time but this time im going to different airports then before my plane will stop in Japan before I get GZ here I will give you my full name Robert E Collins phone number is XXXX  my passport number is XXXXX so you have this to book hotel for me . Maybe we should have a translator for a day two at least when you meet me at the airport .I have found at least 2 places I want to see Sun Yat-sen memorial hall and The Six Banyan Monastery . I will take more time to look on computer now my work is slow only work 4 days this week and 4 days last week I will rest up so I have lots of energy for when I spend time with my Wendy (:Today I did not work I was painting some boards for selfs in the bath room closet .Have lots to do around here just slow at getting too it .亲爱的,真的很希望我的旅途能如期进行, 我之前有去过中国, 那次是很准时, 不过我这次是去不同的机场的,在去广州之前我要在日本转机, 我会给我的全名是, 电话号码是XXXXXX. 护照是XXXX, 所以你就可以先帮我订酒店了, 可能你去机场去接我的时候, 要有个翻译来给我们翻译一两天. 我找到至少有两个地方我想去的, 一个就是中山纪念堂还有六榕寺. 所以我现在要花时间在我的电脑上, 我工作很慢只需要一个星期工作四天, 上个星期只工作了四天. 我会休息好的, 那样,当我的陪着我的Wendy的时候, 我就精力充沛了. 今天 我不用上班, 我自己一个人油漆浴室的橱柜. 很多工作要做, 也只能是慢慢来,

Lots Of Hugs And many Kissessssssssssssss

 Bob